Illinois couples who are concerned about the cost of divorce may have reason to be worried. Illinois is one of the 10 most expensive states for divorce, with an average cost of around $13,800 to end a marriage. Add in parenting time disputes, property division, alimony, and child support, and that number can quickly rise to more than $35,000. Fortunately, there are steps divorcing couples can take to control the cost of divorce. Why Is Divorce so Expensive? Conflict costs money. When … [Read more...]

Adequately preparing for mediation can help divorcing couples increase the likelihood that their disputes will be resolved without the complication and expense of going to trial. Whether financial issues are a concern, assets are at stake, or parenting time is up for debate, preparation should include identifying issues that need to be addressed, gathering relevant information and documentation, and developing a negotiation strategy to encourage a mutually acceptable agreement. Identifying … [Read more...]

Timing and technique are vital when talking to the kids about divorce. When moms and dads manage these discussions appropriately, they can help protect their children from unnecessary stress and emotional trauma. Preparing for the Talk The memory of finding out about their parents' divorce stays with many children for the rest of their lives. The shock and trauma that kids sometimes experience when they first discover their parents are divorcing may adversely impact their psychological … [Read more...]