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Surviving Divorce without Losing Your Mind (And Your Assets)

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To survive divorce without losing their minds (or assets), individuals need to stay focused, look out for their emotional health, be careful with their finances, and avoid any actions they may regret later.

Personality Traits That Help People Survive Divorce

Psychologists say divorce is one of the most stressful experiences people face. Divorce lawyers find that those who are more likely to survive a divorce unscathed mentally have several common traits.

  • Resilience and optimism go hand in hand when surviving divorce. Having the ability to weather any situation and believing that things will get better is paramount.
  • The ability to stay cool under pressure can make all the difference when parenting time is at stake.
  • Organizational skills help those going through a divorce keep on track with appointments, deadlines, negotiation meetings, and paperwork.
  • The ability to delegate is important when spouses are trying to hold down a job, meet with divorce lawyers, and manage the demands of divorce.
  • Creativity and thinking outside the box can help spouses find solutions to the challenges that divorce can bring.
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The stress of divorce causes some people to withdraw from others and stop doing things they used to enjoy. Other people become very social on the internet and in public. It is important for spouses to use care when choosing pre-divorce activities. Bad social decisions can be used against spouses in court.

Facing the Financial Challenges of Divorce

Divorce can be costly, especially if it goes to trial. Finances should be taken seriously. Divorce lawyers can be a good source of information when dealing with financial situations during the divorce process.

During a divorce, it is important to keep track of bills and watch credit reports. When one spouse handled all the finances during the marriage and the other does not have a full understanding of the couple’s financial situation, negotiating a fair settlement can be tricky. Having a clear picture of the couple’s finances can also help divorcing spouses be better prepared when planning for separation.

Separating finances usually involves setting up separate bank accounts, applying for separate credit, and learning to budget. Making sure that financial challenges are addressed early on can make it easier to survive financially during and after a divorce.

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